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Its 3.30am and sleeping is hard. Mind is still playing tricks - constant replay of yesterday. Am not sure what to do next. Am not sure what we will be next. Can we go past it? Together? The castle has truly shaken to the ground this time around. There is a future to think of. Together? How? Can we? Can i? Love is not the issue here. We have build something pretty solid over the last 9 years but the memory of yesterday is dismantling the blocks slowly. I thought we could overcome the issue with the strength of our love but love is not the issue. Her needs trump over all. Needs that i cant fulfil. Peeking closely perhaps it was inevitable. Bound to happen. But dont drag me along with it. I maybe anything but promiscuous i am not. Though one can argue nothing happened physically so technically she didnt cross any lines. Not in my books. Physical connection is the next step only and had yesterday not happened, physical will happen real soon. 

I dont know. Different side of the table offers different views of the matter.

I am hurt. So hurt. 

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  1. sorenJune 29, 2017 at 3:50 PM

    i'm sorry to hear this. i hope you guys find ways to work this out.

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